It's because "only" the rare, the few, the enlightened can grasp that it's "never" about what a person can get "out" of a situation. (Those individuals lose almost every time) Life has always been about what a person can put "in to" a situation and the rewards begin immediately.
I never regress to mean "or" lower my standards to fit in with the crowd.
*I didn't look to pleased coming back from C. America now did I LOL
I never regress to mean "or" lower my standards to fit in with the crowd.