So, three women are talking about one having a baby, positive right? Perhaps not so positive to the father who doesn't want the baby.
There are a group of guys talking about blowing up a building in New York, negative right? Not to them.
This blog attempts to show you various ways to be yourself and not follow the status quo, here's a few more.
There's a naval ship headed to destroy a country, is this positive or negative? Step away from your mental box. Is your family invested in warheads? Is your son aboard this vessel? Is the country to be destroyed America or Iran? I bet your emotions about positive and negative are all over the map.
Here's a great one.
I man stands up in a crowded room, put's a gun to his head and says, "I'm sick of life, I'm going to kill myself"! Positive or negative? The coroner has a family, someone must do the forensics and an autopsy. Maybe he had been beating his wife and it got to him? Maybe he's from Japan and this is a modern day Hari-kari?
Many will draw upon their indoctrinated values to answer these simple questions while also drawing on past experiences yadda yadda yadda.
The point of what I'm saying is that whether you're the minority or the majority, no one has to agree with or see it your way. That's your ego on full blast.
There are people who are offended by discussions of Trump while others are enriched, no matter what crosses their lips "it's only positive or negative to you" and whoever agrees or disagrees.
I, personally, did battle with very much the same as I have illustrated here. Life taught me that "I am NOT the center of the universe", my feelings are my own.
As far as fitting in, ask yourself, "What am I fitting in to"?
In conclusion, there are a group of individuals that always stuck out like a sore thumb. Their statements were labeled harshly positive and or negative and they always stood alone *for the most part. Who are they?
They're the greatest inventors, researchers, studiers and discover's of all time! I wonder what the positive/negative ratio was in the room when someone decided to invent the condom or tampon?
